Hello friends my name is IK, this was or still is the experience I
had/am having as the case maybe. I may not be a constructive writer but
will try to pass the message across in simple words and as short as
possible.
Have been dating my girl for 3yrs now, and we both have
been so happy in it. During this period i've never cheated on her as I
promised to stay faithful; this may sound strange and impossible but
believe when I say I did it. We stood by each other no matter what the
problem was and have always come out even stronger than we went into
such problem.
To cut the long gist short. About 3weeks ago, I
called her as usual to know how she was faring (she is based at Kaduna
while am based in Abuja) but she didn't not pick and did not call back
after so many missed calls. This was strange as it has never happened
in our relationship since we started dating. This prompted curiosity in me.
After
about 2days she called me and was crying profusely and she said I quote
"my knight I want a breakup I have messed myself up and not worthy of
dating a guy like you, you are too nice to be treated the way I just
did" and she hung up without allowing me say a word. I became so
confused.
A breakup was the least I expected, reason being that
we were happy together. So many attempt to reach her failed. I called
her elder sister and she said she left home since yesterday and is yet to
be seen, I felt devastated and and couldn't concentrate at work. Well
after about 2 or 3 days I was lucky to reach her and told her to please
calm down and explain what happend to me when I come to Kaduna. The next
day I was off to Kaduna so bright and early and at Kaduna I got the shock
of my life. When I asked her why a breakup, that we've been so happy
together. In her words she said "my knight please forgive me. I messed up
and am paying for my mistake. I cheated and now am pregnant". In my
confused state, so many thoughts were running through my mind; could she
be testing me? If not, has she been cheating on me for the past 3yrs?
Where did I get it wrong that she had to cheat on me? Haven't I given my
all already in this relationship? Those questions became rhetorical. Tears
wasted no time rolling down my cheeks.
Crying profusely She
knelt down and said " I know have lost you already but all I need is your
forgiveness". She also said the guy responsible ran away when she told
him about the pregnancy. I felt so angered but didn't utter a single word.
In my mind a thought came up; how could something that has given me joy
for the past 3yrs turn out to be a source of sadness and sorrow to me. I
stood up said I forgive you, and left.
After about 2wks of
restlessness, feeling betrayed and fooled which is about 4 days ago, I
called her and told her I wanted her back, that I want to stand by her
through this period like I have always done in the past (I was ready to do
so). Just to save her the shame I opted to be the father of the child.
Despite her infidelity I was ready to continue loving her like nothing
happened between us. I sent her 10k to register for antenatal care and
buy somethings she needed for the mean time. Just yesterday my phone
rang, it was her number calling when I picked she said "my knight, you
just proved to me that real love still exists in this world. You were
ready to take up another man's responsibility just for my sake despite
knowing I cheated.
We have dated for 3yrs now and I wanted to be
sure of what am seriously getting into, to know if you are worth
waiting for and now I know you truly love me and am grateful to God for
sending you my way. I love you" and she dropped the call. I stared at my phone
for more than 2munites wondering what just happened. I was having a
mixed feeling; happy that she wasn't pregnant or cheated and angry that I
had to go through 2wks of agonizing pain and emotional torture just to
prove my love. I stood dumbfounded for close to 10mins and finally said
to myself man up and continue in it (relationship).
N/B she sent back my 10k without being asked to just to prove that she wasn't in of it.
My
question to the ladies is this. Will you go this extent just to know if
your man loves you? And don't forget that you could lose even the right
guy in this process. We see life differently as what works for Mr A may
not work for Mr B.
For the guys what will you do if your girl plays
this prank or stunt with you. Some how I feel like a fool but I love her
and was willing to stand buy her.
Please leave a comment.... thanks
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